If You’re Not Where You Want to Be – Start Here

An honest note to everyone that isn’t where they want or planned to be in life right now. 

My name is Jessie Lucca. I’m 29 years old and I can admit, I’m not where I want to be in life. And I can’t say that I haven’t tried. In fact, earlier this year I dedicated 8 months of consistent work trying to change it. I started planning last fall, got the ideas flowing and was really trying to focus on what I wanted. Late December I bought a big pink bristol board, printed off a bunch of aesthetic pictures from Pinterest and made a very detailed vision board (the first time since I was a little girl) I was serious about changing everything in 2025 because I was tired and upset with my life.

Have I achieved somethings on my board? Yes of course, it’s inevitable with consistent work and intention. But the big changes I wanted? No. And sometimes that makes me feel so defeated. How much more effort can I put in? How long is this going to take? This may cause me to burnout. But deeper than that, is my limiting beliefs. Am I worthy of these things if they aren’t coming to me? Do I love myself enough? Am I able to maintain this lifestyle I desire? And the doubts come in. Followed by frustration. Sometimes I feel like I am wasting precious years of my life because I’m not where I want to be. And I think that’s the case for a lot of people.

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But here’s the thing about how the universe works- when you ask for something, by law the universe must respond with one of these 3 options: 

1. Yes (easy win and ideal, right?)

2. Not yet (still teaching you patience and prepping you to become the version of you that you need to be)

3. Something better (it doesn’t look like what you want, but it’s your truest desires in another form that is better than what you imagined) 

So, there you have it, now you know the universe will never tell you no. We can all take a deep breath and relax. Instead of focusing on another experience or destination, I need to slow down and enjoy where I am at right now. I can continue to work on myself while the universe delivers the rest to me when the time is right.

What’s meant for you, won’t miss you.

You may not have what you want right now, but I’m sure you have what the past version of you wanted a few years ago. Sometimes looking at things from a larger perspective is what’s needed. 

I’m sure feelings of frustration and impatience may arise again, but I will keep my faith and continue preparing for my blessings. The only way they won’t come is if I give up and if you know me, you know that’s not an option this time. So, if you feel the same way, just know you’re not alone.

With love,

Jessie
The Malleable Path.