The real secret to leveling up is detachment. Detachment is a practice that allows you to gain control over your life. It’s not letting your happiness, peace, or confidence come from anyone or anything else. It’s releasing the tight grip on what you want and instead having a deep knowing that everything is going to work out for you. You may want something bad, right? But what if the universe has a plan for you that is 10x better than what you’re imagining? That’s why it’s important to have goals and work towards them but not be attached to HOW and WHEN you are going to receive those desires. When you are not in a state of ‘needing’, your energy becomes MAGNETIC.
You have dreams for a reason. Your soul is showing you what is possible for you. Your future self is calling you. But aligned action is required- remember the law of action is a universal law and if you missed my article last week you can read it here:
- I’m Going to Convince You to Love Yourself in 5 Minutes
- This Is How I Spent My 30th Birthday
- Sauna Benefits: Why It Became Part of My Self-Love Routine
- Life Doesn’t Change All At Once – The Popular Misconception Explained
- Empathy Is a Skill: How Developing Multiple Perspectives Makes You More Whole
Your job is to decide what you want from life, and who you want to be. Then be that person.
BE, DO, HAVE (this is the correct order) NOT “have, do, be” (common mistake)
The universe will take care of the rest. It is so extremely important that you have faith. You must believe in yourself, and surrender (meaning to completely trust the universe especially when you don’t understand how it’s going to work out)
Everything is serving your highest potential. If it doesn’t make sense to you right now, I promise one day it will!
So, what do you have to do?
1. Set a goal and be clear about what you want
2. Write a plan – what actions will you have to take to achieve this goal?
3. Take action consistently. (bonus if you enjoy the self-improvement process)
4. Don’t worry about HOW, WHEN, WHERE – the universe answers these questions!
Detachment is realizing the greatest project you will ever work on is yourself. The deepest love you will ever experience is from yourself. Your mind, your body, and your soul are one of a kind and the greatest gift; everything else is just a cherry on top. True fulfillment from this life experience comes from within. Everything comes from within, and now that you understand this you can start to detach – and attract everything. Moving ahead, I’d like you to picture your heart as a magnet. Instead of chasing desires, let them flow to you.
I hope you have a wonderful day. If you enjoyed this article or have any questions, feel free to reach out to me!
With love,
Jessie
The Malleable Path.